Pick Up Lines That Work

Pick Up Lines That Work
by Joseph Matthews

Some pick up lines are unbecoming, boring and rude.

For example how often have you heard bad pick up lines such as:

"Nice shoes. Wanna bang?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"Your daddy must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes."

Face it, using lines like this will cause a girl to run the other way. Pick up lines like these make you look like an idiot.

Consequently, bad pick up lines get too much attention, therefore everyone thinks all pick up lines are lame.

However, this is not correct.

Using good pick up lines actually assist you in picking up a woman.

The true point in using pick up lines is to begin a conversation.

PERIOD.

You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with her, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.

But if you can't get the conversation started, then you can do anything else!

You want something more that just talking to a woman; you want to engage her in a good conversation. Drawing her into your conversation is the only means of continuing your relationship journey.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

Do you know that when most men meet women they are at a loss for words to begin talking to a woman? They try to think of something off the top of their head, while often missing the opportunity of meeting a nice woman, before they can think of something to say.

It is essential to have at least a couple of good working pick up lines, especially for those times when you are nervous and cannot think of anything original that helps you take action.

Keep in mind that women are wise; never use these types of pick up lines, since they get you nowhere at all.

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Other bad pick up lines include, asking for directions, complimenting her on her clothing and telling her she looks like some big celebrity.

Why?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid "yes and no" answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

How can you engage a woman in conversation with you?

Easy, ask her opinion about some issue, since each woman has her own opinion, she likes to share with other, especially when it concerns relationships.

Here is an example. Say to her, Can I get your opinion on something, please. Do you think it is strange for a woman to try to get pregnant at certain times so her child is born under a particular astrological sign? I would really be interested in a womans opinion of this.

Then follow up with a short story of how a woman may want her and her children's zodiac sign to be compatible, so they interact well together throughout their lives.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships

The number of ways you can go with this are endless. Some of my favorite follow ups are:

"Do you think there's something to astrology?" (then lead into more discussion about destiny or fate.)

"What sign are you?" (this leads into your sign compatibility with her - HINT: no matter what her sign is, you're compatible!)

"What do you think of children? You seem like the mothering type."

I could go on, but you should get the idea.

A good pick up line design draws a woman into an interestingly deep conversation, while allowing you the opportunity of getting to know one another better and becoming familiar with one another.

This is how you engage a woman in conversation.

At this point, it's the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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How to ask a girl out

Dating, something we all enjoy, but many of us are too shy to make a move. Asking your dream girl out on a date for some guys seems inpossible and very scary. What is she says no? What is she laughs at me? Its all about confidence, and carrying on a conversation. You need to know how to approve the girl of your dreams, what do say when you do approach, and how to keep the conversation going.

The first thing you need to do is stop living in fear, don't worry about her saying no or laughing at you. Because no matter what happens, she is not the only person in the world, there are millions of others. Besides most of the time if you are confident and can carry on a good conversation she'll be glad to go out with you anyway.

There is a lot of different approaches to asking someone out, to read about more of them check out